a while to humble brags and not humble brag of multiple houses, awesome trips, expensive toys I realized only two out of eight couples at the table were on their first marriage.

People can make it work. Another neighbor a few homes down used to live in Beverly Hills and is an attorney still working 12-13 hours a day in his 70s. His wife says he’s done that their entire marriage and it’s worked for them.

You can do a lot of good with a lot of money but I don’t see how it’s worth it. Especially if your employer treats you like crap.