You gave me links of TNT's posts where he repeatedly called Kalani either lazy or charismatic.
You're not reading past the headline and ignoring the specific criticisms within several of those posts. Those aren't even a comprehensive list. I searched for like 2 minutes to pull those.
I added my own criticism about Sitake's gambling proclivity, also not addressed. We could talk about recruits' parents blistering criticism of indifferent recruiting from BYU coaches under Sitake.
What's most bizarre is you say you're not a Sitake apologist and link to a post where you say "I'm not saying Kalani hasn't made some major mistakes which have really cost him. I can't and won't defend him for some of those. I just hope he's learned from them. For instance, I was one of the first to call for him to replace Tuiaki. He finally did but YEARS too late IMO."
What are you even asking for evidence of? You agree with TNT's premise.