I don't remember ever mentioning anything to her, or her asking me about it. Months had probably passed before I saw my cousin again. Nor did I have any follow-up contact with the date.

I don't know if the date really felt like I rebuffed her, because she didn't act like it.

I just said it's late and I have to go to work in a few hours, so we really should get going. IF My memory is accurate, she just seemed indifferent.