10 years in. I have the following:
-New House (Built in 2021)
-New Car (2021 Van and my other commuter car)
-Great food budget
-Save ~25% of my income toward retirement
-Have plenty of leftover cash for fun stuff / vacations.
And I get amazing health benefits, I get 4 months off a year, my breaks coincide with all of my kids' breaks, and I get to work an awesome job with awesome kids. It's all about being smart financially and not overextending yourself.