Computer with a keyboard I might be able to respond. But instead I'm just on my phone pent up in bed with a knee injury. Quite uncomfortable at the moment. I've had this conversation with all of my siblings. I wish I would record them so then I could just type out my verbal answers later 🙂
I would like to respond later though. I used to say the exact type of things you wrote. I think my replies would at least give you some additional perspectives to evaluate.