Jun 6, 2015
11:07:51am
11:07:51am
Questions
I know many who believe, not just LDS, seem to take a lot of solace, by resorting to belief in something happy happening in the great beyond.
However, don't many people just wish, even if you consider it selfish or self-absorbed, that your loved one stayed with you? HF has everything, and we are poor in comparison to him. When a precious one is taken from us, don't some feel cheated?
Grief counselors sometimes advise that putting in God's corner can often postpone healing, as a human being absolutely needs to go through the stages of grief. I am just ruminating, as many who say, "well, they are better off now," are in a well-meaning way, being insensitive. The ones left behind don't feel better from statements like that, or at least some don't.
However, don't many people just wish, even if you consider it selfish or self-absorbed, that your loved one stayed with you? HF has everything, and we are poor in comparison to him. When a precious one is taken from us, don't some feel cheated?
Grief counselors sometimes advise that putting in God's corner can often postpone healing, as a human being absolutely needs to go through the stages of grief. I am just ruminating, as many who say, "well, they are better off now," are in a well-meaning way, being insensitive. The ones left behind don't feel better from statements like that, or at least some don't.
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