was pretty chagrined with me and told me I had my whole life to work, but wouldn't always be able to play golf.

As it turned out, I have played a LOT of golf since, but his point was well taken. Don't be in too much of a hurry to grow up. Enjoy the here and now if it's not irresponsible.

Demin being so young could easily decide to stay in college. He will be wealthy either way. He will probably be set for life either way with a pretty comfortable lifestyle. If I were his father I would ask him one question. "What in your heart of hearts do you really want to do next year?" Then I'd tell him to do that.