leaves out is balance. You’re right if all I did was work and no relationship with my kids then yeah it’s a problem. But if all I did was spend time with my kids then I’d have to work until the day I died. Fortunately for me I put in a lot of work early in my career and when we started having kids I was able to scale that back. I got to a position when flexibility is given. And I now enjoy a great work life balance without a need to take 12 weeks off to prove to myself or my wife that I can be present. I’m present every day.