As I think about this type of situation, I would consider looking deeply and hard at the phone/social media/video game usage.

A few thoughts:
social media is incredibly damaging to self esteem, self worth, and identity as a son/daughter of God.
social media and video games are habit forming, similar to drug usage (see addiction)

Addiction recovery might be appropriate. The church offers incredible resources in this regard. It is a good starting place.

Admittedly, I don't know your situation. Just hoping this might help. Good luck with your journey here. I would take every piece of advice given here and elsewhere and use general conference as a litmus test for the route and decision. Couple that with scripture study and prayer and you have got this. Keep moving forward. As you already know, your daughter is worth it.