I would not read anything into it. Just let it play out. It is a great...

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Aug 13, 2024
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Big-Q Contributor

experience (though not pleasant) to deal with adversity. A powerful learning opportunity. I hope it all works out.

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I posted last week that my daughter was cut from the HS volleyball team.

blackandblue

Aug 13, 12:00am

Sounds like she realized that she mis-handled your daughter's situation - and likely feels some guilt about not having

lightmann

Aug 13, 12:09am

It’s throwing us all for a loop. It’s hard not to wonder and get hopes up with

blackandblue

Aug 13, 12:13am

However she could offer to be a practice player.

Dr MoBYU

Aug 13, 6:04am

Most sports are at least 2/3 the time at practice.

ImuaKahuku

Aug 13, 6:20am

or a manager

LeonMarek

Aug 13, 6:24am

Definitely odd and very much a roller coaster for her emotions. If the coach is

palangi

Aug 13, 12:12am

Have you ever heard of a HS coach changing their mind a week after tryouts?

blackandblue

Aug 13, 12:15am

Some girls could have quit or she wants a team manager?

BYUheaven

Aug 13, 12:19am

My guess is manager/injury reserve

RealSimsShadY

Aug 13, 12:21am

If it’s team manager, that is just cruel.

blackandblue

Aug 13, 12:22am

Hard pass…move on with her new hobbies. Sounds like she was getting into

kansascougar

Aug 13, 6:12am

Some kids would love that. Some wouldn't. You'd just need to help your

fattycoug

Aug 13, 9:43am

I had a friend in HS that would try out every year

RiseUp

Aug 13, 7:37am

I haven’t, that’s why would temper expectations

palangi

Aug 13, 8:13am

I guess I don't understand why it's so bizarre

fattycoug

Aug 13, 9:47am

The timing. One week later and late at night

palangi

Aug 13, 10:22am

I don't find the week later that bizarre. The late night is a bit uncomfortable

fattycoug

Aug 13, 11:07am

Seems odd the texts all come so late at night. Coach have a drinking problem?

Turd Ferguson

Aug 13, 12:23am

Maybe she heard your daughter had a hard time and wanted to reach out. Not sure

Malathion

Aug 13, 12:31am

And hopefully the coach isn’t a predator 🙂

Malathion

Aug 13, 12:35am

She’s a nice lady. I don’t think there is anything malicious with this. Possibly

blackandblue

Aug 13, 12:38am

Here are my thoughts.

YSMACK

Aug 13, 12:44am

As a Varsity coach myself cutting kids absolutely sucks and sometimes you

FT487

Aug 13, 1:00am

At this point, we are fine with the fact that she got cut. But this interaction

blackandblue

Aug 13, 5:53am

I hope I’m wrong, but if she were going to invite her to the team, it seems

garyfan

Aug 13, 1:15am

The VB coach told my daughter she wouldn’t play as a Sr and told her she could

DirtyWater

Aug 13, 5:17am

I suspect she just wants to give her advice for maybe next year

Dr MoBYU

Aug 13, 5:45am

I’ve seen several times the coach bringing players back later after having cut

ImuaKahuku

Aug 13, 5:54am

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RoboKayne

Aug 13, 6:03am

my wife is a varsity head coach for vb. there are 30 freshman tryin out for the

bald man

Aug 13, 6:23am

How many spots?

Dr MoBYU

Aug 13, 6:52am

12-14

bald man

Aug 13, 10:59am

My daughter was cut also from the HS volleyball team. Coach

Byufloridaguy

Aug 13, 6:26am

sounds to me like maybe other girls on the team l et her know that your daughter

inertiaman

Aug 13, 7:11am

I would not read anything into it. Just let it play out. It is a great...

Big-Q

Aug 13, 7:52am

I don’t think so. She has cried with us as her parents. But she’s handled it

blackandblue

Aug 13, 7:58am

I think you need to see this as a great move by a human that wants to

Idacoug

Aug 13, 7:20am

That's the best initial reaction. If it ends up weird deal with that later

Agaricus

Aug 13, 7:26am

Good perspective. At this point it’s just our curiosity that makes it weird.

blackandblue

Aug 13, 8:00am

Seems to me the first text is key and the coach just wants to be a good person and reach out

TADOW

Aug 13, 8:33am

My guess is that the coach has finally finished their team management piece

OGSuperfan

Aug 13, 9:14am

I think it is a good gesture (though direct late night messaging is probably

fattycoug

Aug 13, 9:41am

After reading your posts I think I can see one reason she got cut.

Bullrider

Aug 13, 9:49am

RE: After reading your posts I think I can see one reason she got cut.

BYUheaven

Aug 13, 11:03am

Ouch.

blackandblue

Aug 13, 11:48am

Is it possible the coach wants to give her tips to improve for next year?

byujacob

Aug 13, 10:50am

Possible. She’ll be a senior next year and the coach kept 14 freshman, 10 so,

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