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Sep 10, 2014
10:45:37am

SoCalCoug

It's as if people don't understand that in any group or situation, even if there

are things that you don't like, there very likely are more that you like, that keep you there. Just because you have some things that you think should change, it doesn't mean you don't like being part of the group as a whole. In fact, the fact that you are trying to change it for what you believe is the better means you find it valuable.

Complaints with the church are problematic because of the culture and teachings which make dissension essentially evil.

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SoCalCoug

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"If you don't like it, LEAVE!"

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:41am

All yewt fans suck.

9/10/14 10:43am

If you don't like something, don't do it...

MtnMan

9/10/14 10:43am

if you don't like it, why don't you make like a tree, and get outta here

yahtzee

9/10/14 10:43am

I just don't get the idea of sticking around in an organization that I clearly

SandYFan

9/10/14 10:44am

You're an American, right? Do you just love Obama and Obamacare?

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:45am

It's more that the good outweighs the bad by quite a bit.

SandYFan

9/10/14 10:50am

And that's how folks feel about LES, Church..and my fantasy football league

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:51am

If presidential terms weren't limited...I just may.

9/10/14 10:52am

Once, and if, Obamacare (or its designed final single payer system)

ByuMba90

9/10/14 10:57am

What alternatives are there? Maybe it's the best overall for your needs

SoCalCoug

9/10/14 10:46am

incessant complaining while offering nothing

TheRowdy

9/10/14 10:44am

it is simply a typical human response.

RalphWiggam

9/10/14 10:45am

That said....

RalphWiggam

9/10/14 10:50am

I lived in downtown Seattle...for four years...as an Active LDS. I'm not

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:53am

I understand your anecdotal evidence from 4 years in the northwest is

RalphWiggam

9/10/14 11:08am

It's as if people don't understand that in any group or situation, even if there

SoCalCoug

9/10/14 10:45am

I absolutely agree. 100%

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:46am

Your first paragraph is what every "if you don't like it" person needs to read.

jayriggity

9/10/14 10:56am

Oh man.

Belboz

9/10/14 1:19pm

Post your picture of what Frenemy59 probably looks like below:

Hambone

9/10/14 10:45am

Really? *eyeroll*

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:47am

Sorry, it's a slow news day.

9/10/14 10:47am

RE: Really? *eyeroll*

crack

9/10/14 10:50am

Classic.

Frenemy59

9/10/14 11:01am

RE: Post your picture of what Frenemy59 probably looks like below:

9/10/14 10:47am

That's probably closer to the folks i am talking about, no?

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:48am

It was a study in relativism.

9/10/14 10:51am

If you don't like something so much that you constantly complain about it,

Fightgar

9/10/14 10:59am

RE: Post your picture of what Frenemy59 probably looks like below:

spoxjox

9/10/14 10:47am

Classy. And so mature.

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:48am

If you dont like it, LEAVE.

BE-WHY-YOU

9/10/14 11:38am

RE: Post your picture of what Frenemy59 probably looks like below:

Hambone

9/10/14 10:51am

RE: Post your picture of what Frenemy59 probably looks like below:

spoxjox

9/10/14 10:54am

RE: Post your picture of what Frenemy59 probably looks like below:

Belboz

9/10/14 11:01am

RE: Post your picture of what Frenemy59 probably looks like below:

ds7

9/10/14 11:06am

RE: Post your picture of what Frenemy59 probably looks like below:

ds7

9/10/14 11:16am

So this kinda stuff is okay, but Max Hall smack talk is not?

Frenemy59

9/10/14 11:17am

so, you know a lot of these people?

ds7

9/10/14 11:31am

I think all of it is okay.

Belboz

9/10/14 11:31am

Its Cougarboard. If you dont like it, LEAVE.

BE-WHY-YOU

9/10/14 11:38am

I think it's indicative of the sound bite/social media/selfie culture we

Iman23

9/10/14 10:46am

You mean like the governor of NY who basically said that

CougMandoo

9/10/14 10:47am

That doesn't count. He was saying it to Republicans, so it's okay.

spoxjox

9/10/14 10:48am

maybe it's because the majority are descendants of people that did just that

9/10/14 10:48am

But our ancestors were forced out because others wouldn't let them be different

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:50am

I understand your point, but sometimes that seems like an appropriate response.

Anae4Anae

9/10/14 10:48am

That's fair, and I feel that way when people rip on our state.

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:55am

Honestly I don't think this is strictly an lds cultural or regional

9/10/14 10:50am

By far the most provincial people I have met have been New Yorkers (NYC).

spoxjox

9/10/14 10:55am

That surprises me that they would even take the time to say that. I would expect

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:56am

From the other angle, as it relates to Utah, it seems like outsiders often

QuinneyCoug

9/10/14 10:50am

it's the mormon version of "talk to the hand"...

ds7

9/10/14 10:51am

Most people chose to live or be a part of a community where they have similiar

SoValleyCOUG

9/10/14 10:51am

That sounds like "be a lemming" and don't associate with anyone different from

Frenemy59

9/10/14 10:58am

diversity is fine. When you attempt to change the status quo, people don't like

SoValleyCOUG

9/10/14 12:48pm

From my observations people in Utah are usually open to having discussions about

9/10/14 10:52am

I'd like to think it's not just me, but maybe. But I heard this attitude more in

jayriggity

9/10/14 11:04am

I think their point is that Utah is a unique place, and the people who live ther

jbonita

9/10/14 10:55am

This is definitely a culture thing...

Ode to Hoy

9/10/14 10:57am

i feel the same way about returning to utah as most americans do when they

ds7

9/10/14 11:09am

I got the reverse treatment while living in the South

PolarCoug

9/10/14 10:59am

I sort of have this attitude about people who hate Utah

germm

9/10/14 11:04am

I love living in Utah...

Frenemy59

9/10/14 11:06am

oh, you're one of those "edgy" utahns...

ds7

9/10/14 11:11am

Much better to live someplace and whine incessantly about its supposed

spoxjox

9/10/14 11:12am

But if you complain all the time about your fantasy football league

Fightgar

9/10/14 11:16am

Really?

Frenemy59

9/10/14 11:25am

You misunderstood me.

Fightgar

9/10/14 11:44am

Ahem... excuse me but your

IceBlue

9/10/14 11:27am

You're right. No one says that.

Frenemy59

9/10/14 11:35am

We're protective of our future growth. Isn't that what it comes down to? When

QBarrister

9/10/14 11:31am

Here's the way I see it:

BE-WHY-YOU

9/10/14 11:37am

but things would be so much better if only you saw things my way...

ds7

9/10/14 11:41am

Let's see, Utah was settled by Mormons that were literally kicked out of the US

TheDeek

9/11/14 11:18am

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