my point is, if you dislike something so much that you're going to spend your time complaining about it, then do something about it. change it. if you can't, then stop participating in it.

you obviously like your ffl enough and you don't really complain about the flex thing. if you did hate it enough that you constantly complained about it, then it would be better for you and for your friends if you didn't annoy them with your constant whining and just left t the league. can you really blame your friends if they wanted you to leave if all you did was complain about it?

as far as the church goes, i have a firm testimony and hope that all men would come unto Christ and be saved. if you constantly complain and whine about the church, then develop your testimony so that you don't complain anymore. if you can't because maybe you think the church should change, then maybe it's not for you. you aren't going to change the church.

i never meant to imply that you should leave the church. i'm just saying that complaining about this is unproductive. do something about your situation so that you don't complain. if that means moving, then do it.

i have a facebook friend who posts half of the time on why she hates living in utah. i would rather that she develop a better attitude, talk to neighbors who bother her and work things out, etc. but if she's not going to, then what that means is she's going to just go on complaining and hating it here. so why is it wrong for me then to think "why don't you just move?" i don't see anything wrong with that. if you don't like it somewhere, why not move?