My FFL is with all my buddies. I'm not going to go play with people I don't know over a stupid rule.
And if you are that nonchalant about people who struggle with aspects of their testimonies (why don't you go find another Church), maybe you need to work on your empathy and adjust your attitude. It's not simple. It's not easy. And it's something that some folks struggle with their whole lives. I'm glad that you are so willing to invite people to leave the Church. "And when thou art converted, nonchalantly disregard your brethren." Something like that....