different points of view or alternative thinking when they know that the person who is engaging them is looking for a sincere response. I cant really remember the "If you dont like it, leave" used on anyone other than a pot stirrer or troll. People use that response when they know that no matter what they communicate to the other person that person will retain their point of view or their trolling. If you are hearing "if you dont like it, leave" frequently maybe its not Utah, maybe its you. Just a thought.