Certainly. But I’m simply responding to his question about “expecting” it.

Jun 30, 2024
2:41:14pm

myfriendryan Redshirt Freshman

And I don’t think that any man should simply expect a full time mom and wife to cook unless as you said, a conversation was had beforehand.

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POLL: How many of you husbands married to a full time wife and mother, expect a home cooked meal on the table 7 days a week?

TherealHCBW

Jun 30, 1:56pm

Name checks out

OU Cougar

Jun 30, 1:59pm

🙋‍♂️

cambo

Jun 30, 1:59pm

I have never expected it but my wife does it anyway. She runs four boys around for their demanding sports schedule and

Zach Morris

Jun 30, 1:59pm

I don’t imagine there are a whole bunch of these women in the US these days

Jericho

Jun 30, 2:02pm

My wife converted after we got married. She grew up in a culture that wasn’t conducive to being a traditional

Zach Morris

Jun 30, 2:07pm

My mom worked as well and raised a large family

Jericho

Jun 30, 2:25pm

What's a full-time wife?

GfB

Jun 30, 2:03pm

Some might want to sign up to be part time. Can you be a part time husband too?

Soupie

Jun 30, 2:05pm

I have no idea. What does it mean?

GfB

Jun 30, 2:08pm

The deed is once a month or less

jacare

Jun 30, 2:22pm

Amazingness.

brazilcoug

Jun 30, 2:27pm

What is the wife’s day job?

shimmy

Jun 30, 2:06pm

I never expect it. Her job is way harder than mine.

Dangerous

Jun 30, 2:06pm

I'm interested to enter your field. What is it?

Plato

Jun 30, 2:35pm

We trade off on who is in charge for dinner.

WJCougar

Jun 30, 2:08pm

My wife stays home to raise children. Housekeeping is an ancillary duty.

stenso

Jun 30, 2:09pm

Do you mean a full-time stay-at-home mom? How old are the kids, and how many are

Japan Coug

Jun 30, 2:18pm

No man should ever expect a woman to simply cook for him.

myfriendryan

Jun 30, 2:20pm

Wouldn't it depend on the discussions the couple had together before getting married? No such blanket statement exists.

Division Bell

Jun 30, 2:25pm

Certainly. But I’m simply responding to his question about “expecting” it.

myfriendryan

Jun 30, 2:41pm

I guess I can't imagine getting married without having prior discussions on roles, goals and what each other can expect

Division Bell

Jun 30, 3:07pm

Things change after marriage. Your expectations before marriage are based on...

WJCougar

Jun 30, 5:46pm

Of course the relationship is living and always changing. It's why society emphasizes communication.

Division Bell

Jun 30, 5:52pm

My wife rarely cooks. Most nights it’s buy from somewhere. I’m not

Don Carlton

Jun 30, 2:20pm

I think I eat enough food before dinner

Chicago Cougar

Jun 30, 2:23pm

We’re a team. I don’t care if she works full time, a stay at home mom,

Fatalplacebo

Jun 30, 2:27pm

How about, "I never expect it, but always appreciate it"?

PGVikingDad

Jun 30, 2:30pm

RE: POLL: How many of you husbands married to a full time wife and mother,

TherealHCBW

Jun 30, 2:47pm

I'm an old man. My mom (gone for decades), grew up on a farm (Great Depression). Everyone worked hard to not starve.

Division Bell

Jun 30, 3:51pm

RE: I'm an old man. My mom (gone for decades), grew up on a farm (Great

TherealHCBW

Jun 30, 5:11pm

I’m not going to agree with DB, that washing machines and dishwashers were the worst thing for mothers.

SJS

Jun 30, 5:20pm

Well, it is DB.

Fatalplacebo

Jun 30, 5:40pm

True. I just think it’s odd that TherealHCBW is agreeing with a dude who wishes she had to work harder.

SJS

Jun 30, 5:44pm

I'm in no position to tell anyone how to live their lives. But I can share what I might do in that situation.

Division Bell

Jun 30, 5:49pm

Stay at home mom is honestly a tough job! My wife is doing her best and

Cougphysio

Jun 30, 8:07pm

My wife & I agree that eating out is often the best option

Odysseus

Jun 30, 6:16pm

Whoever gets home from work first usually cooks. Seems we both do a good amount

LakeshowCougs

Jun 30, 3:01pm

At least 6 days a week, my HCBW cooks her dinner and I cook mine and they are

Methusaleh22

Jun 30, 3:02pm

We each make our own meals, consistent with our diet restrictions. We often trade a portion of our meals with each other

Division Bell

Jun 30, 4:03pm

Your MiL cooks Sunday dinner?

Q-grr

Jun 30, 4:30pm

We plan the meals together and each expect the other to help and contribute.

BYUtka

Jun 30, 3:32pm

RE: We plan the meals together and each expect the other to help and contribute.

TherealHCBW

Jun 30, 5:12pm

I once asked my wife what was for dinner in our first year of marriage and she

Bin01015

Jun 30, 10:51pm

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