Yes, the anxiety and depression. ODD I'm sure has been difficult. My son didn't have ODD, but some very good friends of ours had an autistic son like that. As a kid he spent most of 2nd hr church up in a tree. He even refused to go be in his sister's wedding photos. He had a few interactions with the police. We thought for sure, he'd end up in jail, but he is actually doing really well right now. He is a good kid. There is hope. Your kid has good parents. Thanks for your comments.