Best way to document is through emails not verbally

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Nov 10, 2023
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MacsKid

11/9/23 4:19pm

RE: Advice- My wife has a problem student that asks her if “she sucks

franklyvulgar

11/9/23 4:20pm

Your wife needs to clearly document every instance of harassment, her petitions to her superiors about the harassment

RalphWiggam

11/9/23 4:25pm

Yep. If management does nothing after notice, it is a hostile work environment.

DwigtA2RM

11/9/23 8:00pm

Best way to document is through emails not verbally

BYU Grounds

11/10/23 9:32am

Daily email to her boss outlining every new instance of harassment with a cc to

ArcticKat

11/10/23 12:14pm

She should document exactly what the student says, that she’s asked repeatedly

BR549

11/9/23 4:28pm

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MacsKid

11/9/23 4:38pm

Agree, it is blatant sexual harassment.

Rocketman

11/9/23 4:43pm

Amazing that can happen once without a suspension, and twice without removal.

777

11/9/23 4:31pm

Clark county got rid of suspensions in the name of equality. It’s nuts.

vegasnative

11/10/23 10:26am

RE: Advice- My wife has a problem student that asks her if “she sucks

garyfan

11/9/23 4:33pm

She doesn't need to take that. It is beyond the pale. If the principal won't

rockyrd

11/9/23 4:34pm

Touchy question I know but what race is she?

TicoBrown

11/9/23 4:36pm

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MacsKid

11/9/23 4:40pm

Yeah she will never be suspended or disciplined

TicoBrown

11/9/23 4:41pm

Then OP's wife should document every instance it happens and what is done about

Tricky

11/9/23 4:49pm

I'll say it: she should sue the school if nothing happens

MetaLearner

11/9/23 5:18pm

yeah eventually you could send it to a news outlet or something

ColonelMustard

11/9/23 7:13pm

With good documentation and perhaps even in classroom cameras that capture the incidents it would be more

unctoothman

11/9/23 8:38pm

This is the kind of thing that begins to build real racism within people.

CrimWalCoug

11/9/23 5:20pm

that's literally what is happening. racism was practically dead. now race is all

ColonelMustard

11/9/23 7:13pm

The not suspending thing is actually more racist.

Ojiisan

11/9/23 7:04pm

Document it and escalate. No need for her to just take it.

Cougs4Lfe

11/9/23 4:37pm

If your wife was in Idaho she could get a significant pay out from District

Chester Copperpot

11/9/23 4:39pm

RE: If your wife was in Idaho she could get a significant pay out from District

WifeofCBaddict

11/9/23 4:44pm

Me too, I can't believe I am approaching twenty years, time flies

BYUFootballisBack

11/9/23 4:51pm

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MacsKid

11/9/23 4:44pm

She's in Clark county? Then she's in the union. She shouldget the union involved. File a grievance calling it an unsafe

Adrielle

11/9/23 4:42pm

I'd make sure secretly recording a minor is legal before I did that.

Chester Copperpot

11/9/23 4:43pm

Yep, that would get you in a LOT of trouble in Illinois if done without consent

morningcalmcougar

11/9/23 7:05pm

maybe don't do it secretly then. record the kid openly

ColonelMustard

11/9/23 7:15pm

Make sure that recording in any form is legal before recording

NYC and Japan

11/10/23 12:12am

Unfortunately public schools have become baby sitters b/c of liberal policies

Coug Dude

11/9/23 4:44pm

Could be either Title IX or Title VII issue if the school fails to take

Thrill

11/9/23 4:47pm

Have your wife assign the student a ton of projects on Roosters or Cock Fighting

Chester Copperpot

11/9/23 4:49pm

Has she taken this to the union?

HiLife

11/9/23 5:14pm

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MacsKid

11/9/23 5:36pm

Tell her to contact her union rep immediately.

HiLife

11/9/23 6:59pm

Tell the principal she identifies as Muslim, and that this is offensive. Should resolve itself.

Bob Vance

11/9/23 5:30pm

Not exactly the same, but a teacher in my wife's district just got a 7 figure

Emmett Fitz-Hume

11/9/23 5:36pm

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MacsKid

11/9/23 5:42pm

No kidding. Today a girl in my wife's school bit a teacher on the arm, and

Emmett Fitz-Hume

11/9/23 5:47pm

If the principal won’t do anything, go to HR or the union.

Yukon

11/9/23 5:42pm

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JohnnyComeLately

11/9/23 5:58pm

Serious question, is there not a process to write the student up according to

UMWolverine

11/9/23 7:15pm

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MacsKid

11/9/23 7:41pm

Go straight to the coach of whatever team

RealSimsShadY

11/9/23 7:49pm

Parental contact a possibility?

UMWolverine

11/9/23 7:59pm

RE: Advice- My wife has a problem student that asks her if “she sucks

King of Y

11/9/23 7:23pm

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cowbellcoug

11/9/23 7:24pm

Wouldn't this constitute sexual harassment?

Spiff

11/9/23 7:25pm

Yes

ochobeeguy

11/9/23 7:38pm

Every time, document date, time, what was said. Write it in front of the girl.

ochobeeguy

11/9/23 7:47pm

Great advice!

UMWolverine

11/9/23 8:00pm

This is sexual harassment so yes, they should do something. She should keep

Your Royal Blueness

11/9/23 8:04pm

This is why we need schools for kids who don’t want to be there. Have a school that essentially babysits them for 8 hou

BYU Grounds

11/10/23 9:36am

If she's already told the principal, she should talk to her next.

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