I would be more aggressive

Mar 28, 2025
2:47:35pm

kapcreations All-American

Have a law firm draft a demand letter stating that he refrain from calling her and being within 1000 yards of her.

The demand letter should include escalatory steps the firm will take if he violates the demands.

Have him served, at home.

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Situation with my daughter - what would you do?

BYUfan92

Mar 28, 1:57pm

Super weird, but no, you don't call him. That would be even weirder.

supertux

Mar 28, 1:59pm

hmm not sure weird would describe calling back

Deleted

Mar 28, 2:01pm

First thing I would do is have her talk to HR. Sounds like the supe needs a

Garn

Mar 28, 2:00pm

No, its part time, rotating hours, the store is open 7 days week from 8 to 8

BYUfan92

Mar 28, 2:06pm

HR needs to be alerted. The shift manager needs additional training.

BYUtka

Mar 28, 2:10pm

People can thumbs down me or eye roll me all they want,

gangbusters

Mar 28, 2:04pm

I would 100% call as well

cougfanz

Mar 28, 2:05pm

Predators typically avoid confrontation by nature. Let him know you know

Hiccupless

Mar 28, 2:06pm

Call his wife, ask her why he'd be stalking your daughter. Let her know that the police will be looking into it.

Rules For Thee

Mar 28, 2:08pm

While I agree, I wouldn't call. I'd text him.

Chester Copperpot

Mar 28, 2:08pm

Yeah, maybe. idk if a burner type phone would be better, too.

gangbusters

Mar 28, 2:09pm

Text, sure. Use your Google Voice number instead of phone. Calling him is way

Superkid

Mar 28, 2:10pm

He's creepy, but he did leave her alone. He didn't show up or anything, did he?

Superkid

Mar 28, 2:10pm

Calling lets him know that if anything happens to her he will be a suspect. Big

marinact

Mar 28, 2:18pm

Probably stalked her after work. Guy is a creepy and needs to know he's being

KayakCoug

Mar 28, 2:19pm

Sorry for biting your head off. Not called for.

gangbusters

Mar 28, 2:32pm

We wouldn't know. He could have showed up but not confronted her. Maybe he

fattycoug

Mar 29, 11:51am

Maybe make a manager call him and have them tell him to stop calling/harassing employees.

Penske Material

Mar 28, 2:10pm

That works, too, as long as someone does something to address him directly.

gangbusters

Mar 28, 2:22pm

I’d call him for sure. A guy like that will disappear as soon as he’s lost his

OKchief

Mar 28, 2:12pm

call his wife

Ssebo

Mar 29, 10:09pm

You're not entirely wrong.

Jeffacka

Mar 28, 2:17pm

Just thinking while I type - maybe this isn't a great idea.

Eddie

Mar 28, 2:26pm

Find a new job. Educate her on situational awareness and self defense.

Penske Material

Mar 28, 2:09pm

Shift manager needs some training. "I'm not sure, let me check. Who is calling?"

BYUtka

Mar 28, 2:09pm

“Why do you want to know if she’s wearing leather pants Mr. Wittingham?”

ChiCityCoug

Mar 28, 3:08pm

I am not sure, but what about having your daughter call him back from the store?

crack

Mar 28, 2:12pm

Does she even want to work there anymore?

Belboz

Mar 28, 2:16pm

I had a couple of times my high school daughter was scared working all alone at a local Subway

2FarGone

Mar 28, 2:16pm

Solid dad. Nice work. In today's world, no effort can be too little

BlackBart

Mar 28, 2:18pm

1) I would report it to the police. 2) I would have the store manager call and

Benfica1

Mar 28, 2:28pm

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puntersarepeople

Mar 28, 2:17pm

Your daughter needs to find a new job with serious people that care about her

DodgerCoug

Mar 28, 2:20pm

Someone should call him. As a father, I would heavily consider it and

Thrill

Mar 28, 2:22pm

Could it perhaps have been the guys son? My boys sounded like grown men when they were 13/14 yo. Something to consider

WDaddy

Mar 28, 2:22pm

Dont think so - the # on caller id is the 40 year olds # not a kid. So unless a`

BYUfan92

Mar 28, 2:29pm

Any chance it could be a kid's father where the kid is a friend of your daughter

crack

Mar 28, 2:31pm

Most people have multiple phones in their name on the account and they don't

Superkid

Mar 28, 2:37pm

My parents’ name is on my phone and I’m a college student

BaseCoug

Mar 28, 5:24pm

At a minimum, I would have my daughter carry pepper spray wherever she goes.

crack

Mar 28, 2:26pm

Find out where he works and show up there 🙂

zonacougar

Mar 28, 2:29pm

My daughter has a stalker at work.. an older guy who constantly comes in and asks for her.

TheLost

Mar 28, 2:34pm

After my daughter had a "Heretic" experience happen to her...

VenomFarmer

Mar 28, 2:35pm

Give me his number and I’ll call him. I’ll try to put the fear of God in him if

Q-grr

Mar 28, 2:37pm

Don't overreact. But DO act. Call the dude, tell him you're her father and you

Socrates Johnson

Mar 28, 2:39pm

Different less creepy opinion here. My wife shops at a few stores that the associates work on commission. She'll

BIG XII Coug

Mar 28, 2:40pm

I wouldn't call. Not yet, anyway.

Homercles

Mar 28, 2:42pm

CORRECT ANSWER:

Crowd Factor

Mar 28, 2:46pm

I would be more aggressive

kapcreations

Mar 28, 2:47pm

I have always appreciated the wisdom of Cher Horowitz’s dad in Clueless…

Iman23

Mar 28, 2:55pm

I wouldn't call him. I might make a police report. They probably won't do much

Still Blue

Mar 28, 3:04pm

Easy. I’d call cops. And get my daughter pepper spray and a knife. And/or CCL

Dr MoBYU

Mar 28, 3:15pm

Call Liam Neeson

Cougar Junkie

Mar 28, 4:23pm

In the threat assessment world this is called intensity of effort.

sidsie716

Mar 28, 4:30pm

What’s the age for CC in AZ? This is what 2A was made for, self defense!!!

CObluezone

Mar 29, 6:04am

I wouldn't do anything. You have no idea if it was him or someone else on his

wildlandfireguy

Mar 29, 6:10am

Make sure she knows how to fight.

EDthoracotomy

Mar 29, 8:31am

I actually don’t blame the shift manager at all. Your daughter works in a public

Odysseus

Mar 29, 10:24pm

Take very little common sense to realize an old guy asking for a young girl is

EDthoracotomy

Mar 30, 8:14am

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