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Jan 5, 2025
10:03:00pm

mokelembembe All-American

I see no problem. I think that's kind of how life operates when older too. Have a good idea and you can raise any

amount of money to support it. Just want leisure....nobody's handing you money in terms of private citizens anyway. I think the kids will catch on...grandma and grandpa like to support good things that they perceive as helping us...so lets figure out our own thing that we enjoy that they'll support.

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mokelembembe

Bio page: mokelembembe
Joined: Apr 27, 2005
Last login: Jan 7, 2025
Total posts: 19,471 (31 FO)

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Thoughts on buying expensive gifts for grandkids that their parents can’t

Jan 5, 9:36pm

Why does anyone need to know? And please don't tell me your grandson's name is

byubyu

Jan 5, 9:38pm

Interestingly, it was a trumpet but Gideons Trumpet comes from a 1964 book

Jan 6, 7:36am

Earmark the same $ toward college/car for each grandkid seems fair

SwanSong

Jan 5, 9:38pm

I’ve never thought playing favorites was a good idea. But just me

Bluforever

Jan 5, 9:38pm

Do the other grand kids have to know you gave it?

Jan 5, 9:39pm

And would they even know how much an instrument costs if they're not musical?

goidcougs

Jan 5, 9:44pm

Our whole family is very musical. All of my kids play at least one and

Jan 5, 10:29pm

Tell your wife that I owe my very stable career to playing PC games as a kid

Jan 5, 9:40pm

I have a SIL in cyber security. He’s a gamer and a good guy so it’s not like

Jan 5, 10:17pm

For me, not a big deal. Sounds like a great blessing for your grandchild.

Jan 5, 9:42pm

That’s a contradiction. I think you mean you’re treating them fairly, not

puntersarepeople

Jan 5, 10:06pm

Open 529s for each grandkid, put the same amount in if it bothers you.

BYUFBDAD

Jan 5, 9:43pm

Give the money to the parents to buy the instrument.

blah

Jan 5, 9:51pm

I see no problem. I think that's kind of how life operates when older too. Have a good idea and you can raise any

mokelembembe

Jan 5, 10:03pm

You did a great thing and owe an explanation to no one.

KayakCoug

Jan 5, 10:53pm

It’s your gift. Give it however you want. Wouldn’t worry about other kids etc

Swish

Jan 5, 10:57pm

Life isn’t about being fair and equitable

troutmaster13

Jan 6, 7:22am

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