afford?
We just bought an expensive musical instrument for one of our grandsons.
He is very talented and is really focused. We have always encouraged creative outlets like this for all of our children and grandchildren.
His parents just don’t have the money so we got it for him.
We worry that the other grandkids will feel left out because we haven’t ever spent that kind of money on any of them before.
The others don’t have any hobbies or pursuits that we really want to support (lots of computer and console gaming) so it’s been bugging my wife.
Big deal? Not a big deal?