use words like "discuss," and "voice our opinions." Very "politician" of you, but a half lie is just a complete lie in disguise. Just stop maligning JR and any of our players, and there won't be any comments from us "softies" about it. And then we get called out for complaining about the complaining. But if complaining #1 doesn't exist first, then complaining #2 (or "discussing"it) never exists or happens at all.
Although one might question who's the "softy," those who stick to their fandom through adversity and difficulty, or those who resort to criticism and whining as soon as the outcome is difficult to for them to bear.