From like 31-99. My buddy is in one, he’s 33 and said he feels like a baby in it. That said, what kind of women do you want to marry? She’ll expect those same qualities from you. Keep working on the church stuff and improving yourself. My bro got divorced twice and the best thing he did was get into therapy and work on some of his problems so they wouldn’t reappear in his next marriage. He’s been married 6 years now and is happy as can be.
Keep the faith and keep fighting.