Go look back some of those teams in the 90's (and early 80's). There were some bad, bad losses and that was an era where BYU wasn't at such a disadvantage in terms of recruiting, coaches salaries, and other institutional disadvantages (i.e., the honor code, academics).
I agree--the losses are bad...and it's HOW BYU is losing that frustrates me more than the loss itself, but the point remains...this is part of being a fan. I hope something changes. I want something to change, but I'm going to keep hoping and cheering that the team will win...I guess that's just how I am as a fan.