Don't take this the wrong way, but this story needs to be told.

Call the local Papers and tell them you want to tell your story. Call KSL and other stations.

Right now it is little more than an internet rumor.

If the story is published, then something can be done. The refs can be forced to make an apology and or go to sensitivity training. The cops can get more training on dealing with stressful situations.

I love to hear tyour story, but it does little good here! It needs the backup of a "known news source" like a newspaper or a tv station