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Aug 28, 2024
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reagan21
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School dances
Coug123
Aug 28, 3:39pm
I don't regret going to school dances, but you're not missing much either. It's an experience, sure.
supertux
Aug 28, 3:41pm
It's interesting how different the culture around school dances is in different
the rural juror
Aug 28, 3:44pm
Find another guy and girl that aren't going and convince them to go. You only
JAGA97
Aug 28, 3:42pm
RE: Find another guy and girl that aren't going and convince them to go. You
Coug123
Aug 28, 3:45pm
I get the current trend, but you don't have to buy into the juvenile stupidity.
JAGA97
Aug 28, 3:49pm
Who cares what everybody else is doing. As a father of 7 daughters, I can tell you that several of them sat home alone
BlooGeek
Aug 28, 5:13pm
I would try this just to try to have the experience. But know that if you don't
Tricky
Aug 28, 3:48pm
“Don’t spend money on another man’s future wife”. This was the advice I got from
ChiCityCoug
Aug 28, 3:43pm
This is not good advice. You should date a bunch of people and have fun.
OPINIONS
Aug 28, 3:45pm
Correct. Mine is not great advice, especially given the source who gave it to me
ChiCityCoug
Aug 28, 3:49pm
On the other hand, it IS good advice to not spend money on another man’s wife.
Nittany Cougar
Aug 28, 10:28pm
Because the hope is someone else is spending money on your future wife
Julius Pepperwood
Aug 30, 8:07am
I heard that advice a lot. I don't think it's great advice. There's a benefit
ryebrye
Aug 28, 3:47pm
Yeah my advice was TIC. You are right, dating is fun just don’t get hung up
ChiCityCoug
Aug 28, 3:48pm
That second paragraph is a wild story!
Cougs4Lfe
Aug 28, 4:16pm
Yeah broke my heart really. He was a super cool advisor and I really looked
ChiCityCoug
Aug 28, 4:57pm
Shoot man. Always hard to see good people make poor choices:/
Cougs4Lfe
Aug 28, 8:13pm
Meanwhile, other guys are spending money on your future wife.
Brisco
Aug 28, 4:19pm
You should date lots of women while spending as little on them as possible.
gopman
Aug 28, 4:46pm
This^^
ChiCityCoug
Aug 28, 4:50pm
That’s amazing
pink22
Aug 28, 8:39pm
That’s why I don’t have life insurance
Odysseus
Aug 29, 2:19pm
My son found himself without a date a few weeks before prom last year
ryebrye
Aug 28, 3:44pm
RE: My son found himself without a date a few weeks before prom last year
Coug123
Aug 28, 3:47pm
Maybe he could hook up with Weird Ashley (The Middle).
coolblue
Aug 28, 4:01pm
I hate cliques. Temporary stage in your life. It will pass and you'll be able
VACOUGFAN
Aug 28, 3:44pm
yeah I hated high school for the most part. I only keep in contact with one person from my HS and that was because she
supertux
Aug 28, 3:47pm
My "HS sweetheart" has been banned from speaking to me by her husband. They've
reagan21
Aug 28, 3:51pm
RE: My "HS sweetheart" has been banned from speaking to me by her husband.
Coug123
Aug 28, 3:57pm
Not that weird. While I wouldn't "ban" my wife from talking
cougarfann888
Aug 28, 3:58pm
While I kind of agree, it's well past that. One time my ex, her husband, and
reagan21
Aug 28, 4:04pm
How did you find out they were in there?
supertux
Aug 28, 4:06pm
Her brother told me after the fact.
reagan21
Aug 28, 4:07pm
Yeah, that's very extreme
NaturalNeuralNet
Aug 28, 4:30pm
Yeah, it's weird to want to connect with an old GF if not for romantic reasons
SausageKing
Aug 28, 4:14pm
Yeah I never had anything remotely romantic with this girl. I wouldn't want to remain in contact with any of the girls I
supertux
Aug 28, 4:03pm
I would absolutely freak out if my wife’s ex-husband reached out to her.
SuperTank
Aug 28, 4:15pm
RE: I would absolutely freak out if my wife’s ex-husband reached out to
reagan21
Aug 28, 4:16pm
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greatbam
Aug 28, 8:04pm
Cliques never end but eventually you reach a point where you couldn't care less
Jesse Pinkman
Aug 28, 4:29pm
If he plans on staying in the church, there will be plenty of cliques…
ochobeeguy
Aug 30, 10:04am
Why do you need a group to go to Prom? Ask your date, and if she says yes
Cougarclaw
Aug 28, 3:46pm
It's not prom, try to keep up.
ochobeeguy
Aug 30, 10:05am
Guarantee there is some girl at your school who has never been asked to a dance
Blueto
Aug 28, 3:46pm
RE: Guarantee there is some girl at your school who has never been asked to a
Coug123
Aug 28, 3:48pm
why?
Cougarclaw
Aug 28, 3:54pm
That’s the way it is these days. 1 on 1 would make it awkward for both
kansascougar
Aug 29, 7:12am
Who do you hang out with while you’re at school?
tkh9
Aug 28, 3:53pm
RE: Who do you hang out with while you’re at school?
Coug123
Aug 28, 4:10pm
Sounds like me in high school. College is way better, don’t worry
BaseCoug
Aug 29, 2:17pm
School dances are a waste of time/money
Jericho
Aug 28, 3:53pm
Is this a thing? Went to many dances one-one and few of them as a group.
JohnnyC
Aug 28, 3:56pm
RE: Is this a thing? Went to many dances one-one and few of them as a group.
Coug123
Aug 28, 3:58pm
So maybe find another guy you know who doesn't have a date and
Tricky
Aug 28, 4:01pm
Interesting. I see the logic of group dates but shouldn’t be only for “dating”
JohnnyC
Aug 28, 4:07pm
What?
shimmy
Aug 28, 4:32pm
Of all my friends in HS…I have seen 2-3 in the last 10 years.
IGlowInTheDark
Aug 28, 4:00pm
It stinks, but keep your chin up. College dating is 100% better than HS dating
runnincoug
Aug 28, 4:01pm
And dating when you’re married is even better
IGlowInTheDark
Aug 28, 4:02pm
Or if near BYU, he could go find some cute girls, snap a few selfies with them &
OldFogey
Aug 28, 4:18pm
Go outside of the normal "groups" you've been asking to be included in.
SLIVER
Aug 28, 4:06pm
Move out of state and you don't have the same pressure. It's a Utah only thing.
SausageKing
Aug 28, 4:12pm
^^^^^ Amen
OldFogey
Aug 28, 4:19pm
And Colorado City is only a few miles from Utah.
JAGA97
Aug 28, 4:21pm
Hahaha, yeah. Other states do have their own pathologically elaborate traditions
RoboKayne
Aug 28, 4:23pm
School dances are a cesspool at our high school (Colorado). Many kids drunk and
Hawk in the 303
Aug 28, 4:44pm
Invite the funnest girl there is in the school. You will have a blast.
Stucoug83
Aug 28, 4:26pm
I think it will all work out for you if you just start dating right now more. Ask out whoever will go with you....
mokelembembe
Aug 28, 4:50pm
Don't lose sleep over it. Use it to motivate you. I assume a mission
gopman
Aug 28, 4:51pm
Unfortunately the kids 10-20 years older than you ruined it by adding all of the extra requirements
JollyGreenGiant
Aug 28, 4:53pm
RE: School dances
Coug123
Aug 28, 5:23pm
That really stinks
NaturalNeuralNet
Aug 28, 5:34pm
I’m sorry. That sucks. You deserve better. The Lord can help you find real
kansascougar
Aug 29, 7:27am
If you have a friend that is a girl, ask her. Go have some wholesome fun
Powerbait DPM
Aug 29, 1:33pm
You don’t need a group to have fun at a school dance. Especially if they are
Scores
Aug 28, 6:04pm
I had this very thing happen with kids I thought were my friends. Surprised me a lot. I went ahead and went with my date
Breaded Hamster
Aug 29, 12:05am
Depending on where you’re growing up and the culture of your school, it may
BringYourUltimate
Aug 29, 12:48am
They’re overrated.
EDthoracotomy
Aug 29, 11:53am
Dating in highschool sucked for me. Dating at BYU was awesome.
CougarAndMerlin
Aug 29, 11:55am
I never went to any school dance. It’s not something I am sad about or even ever
BaseCoug
Aug 29, 2:19pm
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