works if you can somehow get lucky, or have the connections, to find and see a “Grade A” therapist who is experienced, knowledgeable, and passionate about their jobs.

Otherwise, I don’t believe it works for most people.

I know it wouldn’t work for me.

You can argue that all you want, but thats not the point of my post. The point, and discussion I’m hoping to have is if someone, or a couple, doesn’t have the connections, and isn’t lucky, but needs a therapist/counselor to work through some things…

How do they find a qualified “Grade A” one that they need? Instead of just wasting time and money on a crappy one?

Thoughts? Answers? Success stories? Suggestions?