When I was a kid I was spending the night at my friend's house. They ordered donuts for breakfast and I had one.
The dad was furious someone ate his 'jelly filled donut' and I had no idea. They literally bought donuts and told us all to have some.
I never forgot that.
Here's my mantra: 'you never forget how others make your kids feel.'
Do the right thing and make sure you're the guy who puts people over things.