J really did meet a great guy. It doesn’t take away the grief, but it helps relieve the sting. I refer to J as my cousin now, and I think of her as much as a cousin as I ever did Jacob, though I considered myself to be fairly close to him, including a shared profession. I’m so happy to see all of the healing that has taken place in her/your family, and thrilled to know of L’s mission call! She will be a fantastic missionary.