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Dec 24, 2024
9:46:34am

A Drew Aitch All-American

You just tell them exactly what they are doing. You should raise your kids to

Not have expectations that they should receive gifts from others. It’ll probably help them long term when you die from fighting with each other about your estate.

Yes it’s nice of others but certainly not necessary in order to show love and support. That can be done in other ways.

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A Drew Aitch

Previous username: GeauxCougs
Bio page: A Drew Aitch
Joined: Feb 28, 2007
Last login: Dec 24, 2024
Total posts: 19,699 (145 FO)

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My parents decided no presents this year for kids or grandkids. They decided to

Magneto

8:54am

Idk sounds cool to me

Chocolate_Pretzel

8:56am

How old are the kids? They may not even notice or care.

Belboz

8:57am

Cut them off and never speak to them again.

TCuz

8:57am

Yeah! Leave the church and tell them this is why, too. That'll get em

9:37am

Tell them they wanted to give to kids in need and help your kids understand why

benny1982

8:57am

Yeah, it's sort of lame but it would also be lame to be resentful about it

fattycoug

9:07am

You need to chill.

immacougar

8:58am

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KYU

10:02am

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Longseason

8:58am

Why would you say anything? They're not going to announce what they did?

rcbyufan

8:59am

They did announce it to our family. They said no more presents for grandkids

Magneto

9:10am

Oh. Well I retract my outrage. That's perfectly fine behavior.

rcbyufan

9:12am

Your kids will have no problem understanding if they are physically taking them somewhere to give the donation. That's

mokelembembe

9:14am

Yup. Sounds cool to me. Maybe tell the kid his budget and let him pick the gift/gifts he’s giving. This would be a cool

mvtoro

9:21am

Then join them and help your kids see the better side of Christmas!!

AzCugrFan

9:45am

^^^The Christmas spirit gone wrong^^^

brazilcoug

9:00am

Sounds like a cool idea to me.

cheezedawg

9:00am

Your kids didn’t want chickens?

SausageKing

9:00am

You just tell them the truth, that one set of grandparents decided to give

4mack

9:01am

LOL. The grandparents should be explaining. Why are they not talking to their

rcbyufan

9:02am

There's not anything in the OP specifically stating that they aren't going to be

fattycoug

9:09am

He clarified. Sounds like they behaved fine.

rcbyufan

9:12am

If you live close to your parents, it would have been fun for them to take the

PCCoug

9:01am

silly take. why are they obligated to gift your kids?

AzCugrFan

9:01am

Because both of their parents did gifts to me and my siblings. Now they don’t

Magneto

9:12am

So people don’t have the right to evolve their thinking and change? They are

SnickSnack

9:32am

And they got off Scott free after cleaning up from their own parents!? How dare they not pay their fair share into the

mvtoro

9:34am

As reddit would say YATAH

fattycoug

1:50pm

Grandparents shouldn’t really be the ones spoiling the kids on Christmas anyway IMO.

Mike Honcho

9:02am

Grandparent gifts aren't really a thing in my family.

cruoti

9:03am

I'm confused, why would you resent your parents for this. Is this a reverse?

Meadowcoug

9:04am

It's absurd behavior by the grandparents. To be clear, not getting gifts for

rcbyufan

9:11am

Edit: His post above clarifies the behavior. They acted fine.

rcbyufan

9:13am

They sent out a big group message telling everyone their reasoning and if we’d

Magneto

9:16am

Sounds like a great idea. You should take your kids and join them.

cougarim

9:34am

RE: It's absurd behavior by the grandparents. To be clear, not getting gifts

UNLVcougar

1:47pm

Wow....classic millennial/ gen z response here.

carcoug

6:23pm

This can’t be real right? Someone getting mad at their parents for being

Pepe

9:35am

What are you going to tell them? That’s absurd. It’s not about getting gifts for Christmas. You’re raising spoiled brats

RdF3

9:06am

Tell them the truth, your kids have plenty and their grandparents wanted to help

Cosmodiar

9:07am

I thought the whole point of Christmas is giving and worshiping Jesus.

JohnnyC

9:09am

But what about getting cheap Chinese crap?

cheezedawg

9:12am

Only if you purchase it at Temu.

JohnnyC

9:51am

So you don't give your kids gifts right?

ochobeeguy

10:15am

Yes. I don’t give gifts to my kids.

JohnnyC

12:09pm

I do not understand your parents choice nor your reaction.

shimmy

9:14am

Tell them you were going to go visit them but instead you are going to go visit the giving machines now. JK. Don’t

TADOW

9:15am

One of our gifts to our kids is a pic of the options and we go the day after

Dataguy

9:15am

RE: My parents decided no presents this year for kids or grandkids. They decided

goidcougs

9:18am

Resenting your parents for this seems a bit harsh.

John Doe

9:18am

My parents have a ton of grandkids, much more than 14, so we taught our kids

Penske Material

9:19am

I don't think I ever got gifts from mine. As the youngest grandchild going to

9:53am

Potd to complete the collection, and for the sheer absurdity of the post.

StantonMac

9:21am

Hopefully you can provide the appropriate context and example for them to follow

couldge

9:26am

I hope you took your kids to make the donation!

Still Blue

9:26am

Not sure if this is really about Christmas giving

korihor

9:26am

P

mvtoro

9:36am

My in-laws did the same thing and my kids are totally fine.

Yukon

9:28am

our kids go to the giving machines and pick the gift for/from the grandparents.

niqmadu

9:35am

This. This is why I can’t quit CB.

Tortillero

9:36am

I can understand your concern if your kids

Herewego

9:39am

It only works if the Grandkids get to allot the money at the Giving Machine

9:39am

A few years ago our extended family took all the kids to a foreign country to spend a week at an orphanage. We

9:40am

I love reading about these types of things. Makes me want to do better.

qwerew

11:19am

Your parents are awesome.

Benfica1

9:41am

Your parents are giving your kids a far better gift than presents. This is great

runnincoug

9:45am

You just tell them exactly what they are doing. You should raise your kids to

9:46am

Hopefully your kids have a better understanding of Christmas than you do

SLC-Durham

9:48am

I teach my kids that Christmas is more than presents

9:52am

If you look at it, this way, you’re inheritance is not hemorrhaging quite as much. Nothing to resent there.😉

KYU

10:02am

I had one set that gave every grandkid a gift and one that didn’t. Shockingly

10:09am

I thought this was a joke at first. Nope. Here's what my parents have done –

Benfica1

10:24am

is this a "reverse" or what ever they call it? This can't be serious.

qwerew

11:17am

My parents did something similar but they gave us money and asked us to donate to a charity of our choosing

LaserCoug

11:29am

Is this a reverse?

Lefty24

12:06pm

You're seriously whining about that? Or is this a reverse I dont understand?

BYUfan92

1:27pm

I’d calmly sit them down and explain that your in-laws don’t care for the poor

DiamondMo

1:28pm

The amount of angst in this thread over giving to the needy in lieu of Christmas

UNLVcougar

1:53pm

I know I’m in the minority here but I think it’s weird.

abyunobody

3:34pm

Nice try. We know this is a throwaway account, OP.

3:57pm

If they had only given each grandkid a goat, it could have counted for both.

Cru Jones

4:42pm

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