I know there are a few on CB who know who I am, so it probably wouldn’t be appropriate for me to give specific examples due to confidentiality. But trust me, there are some that have done “it” and tried to justify that it isn’t as bad as “really doing it”, then later their conscience got to them. I believe (I sure hope) it isn’t near as common as those that try to label and mock members of the church over it act like it is, but to adamantly deny that it’s real is either a denial to the possibility that it could be true, or just being very naïve.