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Oct 9, 2024
11:28:53am
OrsoNero All-American
Do you really think it helps to admit you're nervous?
My experience is that in professional contexts, people come in expecting you to be great, which is a huge advantage if you act confident and secure. It feels like when someone says they're nervous, or, in a church meeting, mumble something about how they wanted to say no to the bishop because they hate giving talks, that it undermines the strong position that a speaker otherwise starts with.

But maybe it depends on the kind of speaking. I speak several times a year at conferences, usually for smaller groups of 20-40, but occasionally in front of several hundred people, and these are all people who have paid a good deal of money to attend the event. Nobody there is compelled by work and they've often traveled from a distance to hear me and others talk about something that is very important to them. They come in expecting me to be great, and it's a subject that I know very well and at this point could just wing it and nobody would know. Over time, I've just grown in confidence, and really enjoy public speaking.
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