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Sep 19, 2024
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BNcoug
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You have to be the parent. Clean out her room weekly or monthly.
She’ll get mad and throw a fit but you have to do it.
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Time
Ok…I need some MIL advice
Kale
Sep 19, 8:01pm
Were you thinking she would stop when she moved in with you?
BYU'01
Sep 19, 8:04pm
Good question. No car and cutting off her supply thought would help
Kale
Sep 19, 8:05pm
If she lost her last home I would expect therapy/medication would be necessary
BYU'01
Sep 19, 8:09pm
Her kids need to step up and address the problem. This isn’t an in-law issue
kansascougar
Sep 19, 8:05pm
Her kids don’t care. I invited her to live with us
Kale
Sep 19, 8:57pm
Yeah, saw that. That terrible. You’re a good man. God bless you
kansascougar
Sep 19, 9:06pm
I'm sorry, this sounds stressful. You're a good person for wanting to help.
OrsoNero
Sep 19, 8:05pm
She loses her mind if you take anything away. Like a kid
Kale
Sep 19, 8:07pm
It must be so difficult for those people.
OrsoNero
Sep 19, 8:12pm
I would still throw it away. But that’s me.
JohnnyC
Sep 19, 8:13pm
Toss it anyway
Born2Fish
Sep 19, 11:48pm
As long as it stays in her room, and it's not actual trash, but just clean
paulb
Sep 19, 8:06pm
I can’t imagine why you thought it would be a good idea to let this person live with you.
Virginia Ute
Sep 19, 8:06pm
Can’t argue your point. Just thought I could help
Kale
Sep 19, 8:14pm
Well, you get credit for trying. It’s more than I would have been willing to do.
Virginia Ute
Sep 19, 8:25pm
Life’s too short to lie to the people who make our lives harder.
The 435
Sep 19, 8:09pm
Sounds like she needs to talk to a therapist.
wjman11
Sep 19, 8:09pm
Weekly or monthly room check like college kid apartments. Tell her this is your house
Soupie
Sep 19, 8:11pm
5-6mg of psilocybin mushrooms and threaten assisted living if it continues.
Shore10
Sep 19, 8:18pm
It is a mental illness. She needs professional help
mudpupper
Sep 19, 8:24pm
It’s a form of OCD and is treatable.
Future_Tacos
Sep 19, 8:34pm
RE: It’s a form of OCD and is treatable.
Kale
Sep 19, 8:38pm
Either it goes voluntarily or you go and THEN it will also go
JimmyZ
Sep 19, 8:41pm
I would talk to the neighbors about not giving her anything
TLCougar
Sep 19, 8:42pm
I now know why Kale is always pessimistic and grumpy n
wildlandfireguy
Sep 19, 9:03pm
lol….that’s what byu football does to me
Kale
Sep 19, 9:14pm
You have to be the parent. Clean out her room weekly or monthly.
BNcoug
Sep 19, 10:07pm
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