Talking about it more often than needed. Creating a pathology. Prior generations learned resilience and how to overcome

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Jul 18, 2024
4:25:22pm

Zach Morris #NeverNavy

Talking about it more often than needed. Creating a pathology. Prior generations learned resilience and how to overcome

difficult things — todays generation is learning that every difficult thing must be discussed relentlessly while focusing on all of the negatives.

The ‘ol pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back at it is far more rare than parents treating every difficult thing as a tragedy.

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Zach Morris

Previous username: CB4
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Joined: Aug 24, 2009
Last login: Sep 16, 2024
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Kids with Anxiety- LDS therapist says they’re finding that parents are the cause

Shawarma

Jul 18, 3:58pm

Sounds like a very well researched study.

kansascougar

Jul 18, 3:59pm

Not a study. Just a sobering anecdote from a knowledgeable source.

Shawarma

Jul 18, 4:03pm

Do you have children?

kansascougar

Jul 18, 4:18pm

The answer with most psychological things are about 50/50 "nature & nurture"

runnincoug

Jul 18, 4:03pm

The Coddling of the American Mind.

m0resn0w

Jul 18, 4:04pm

The 3 great untruth of that book are pretty profound ways we transmit anxiety

runnincoug

Jul 18, 4:07pm

Yeah the older generations have no issues with anxiety . . .

LakeshowCougs

Jul 18, 4:13pm

Not like the younger generation. It's objectively much worse now than ever.

runnincoug

Jul 18, 4:19pm

He said that leaning on our experience growing up is often a problem because

Shawarma

Jul 18, 4:54pm

I don't know if I buy this, the things kids deal with today are different but I

CameronG

Jul 19, 9:00am

It is different now. The parents & grandparents didn’t deal with these

LakeshowCougs

Jul 19, 10:42am

That's every generation ever

CameronG

Jul 19, 10:57am

That’s great. You are one person. I see this everyday in my profession. It’s a

LakeshowCougs

Jul 19, 12:07pm

What about the increase of depression and suicide doesn’t convince you?

Pretorian

Jul 19, 12:37pm

I know the statistics but I'm not just going to blame everything on parents

CameronG

Jul 19, 1:08pm

I don’t think this is all on the parents. I just think parents are struggling to

LakeshowCougs

Jul 19, 2:16pm

well, I know that I’m at least not a terrible parent, so I’m not beating myself

Shawarma

Jul 19, 4:19pm

Thats reasonable, this is where I think the mental health community is a

Pretorian

Jul 19, 4:30pm

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CameronG

Jul 19, 1:05pm

Yeah & the older generation is horrible at advising the younger generation about

LakeshowCougs

Jul 18, 5:58pm

Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren't Growing Up

Don_Juan_El_Guapo

Jul 18, 4:20pm

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Shawarma

Jul 18, 4:54pm

It's a good book and goes WAY beyond just therapy

Don_Juan_El_Guapo

Jul 18, 6:30pm

Liberals are anxious about the world around them?

eskyjazz

Jul 18, 4:21pm

Yes, that's what research consistently shows

runnincoug

Jul 18, 5:25pm

In other words they don’t know, I still believe behavioral health specialists

Pretorian

Jul 18, 5:37pm

Did they give you any clues on what the parents are doing wrong?

fredy

Jul 18, 4:05pm

Everything. Absolutely everything. Especially you. You're doing everything wrong

Jul 18, 4:09pm

That's what I'm thinking. There is no lack of crackpot therapists out there.

fredy

Jul 18, 4:13pm

Academic Pressure.

eskyjazz

Jul 18, 4:16pm

So what are parents today doing differently than previous generations that is

CameronG

Jul 18, 4:17pm

Talking about it more often than needed. Creating a pathology. Prior generations learned resilience and how to overcome

Zach Morris

Jul 18, 4:25pm

Well meaning parents misinterpreting the problem and misapplying parenting

Shawarma

Jul 18, 5:29pm

Since the state is trying to take over parental duties, maybe blame them.

fbguru

Jul 18, 4:18pm

Anxiety was invented after WWII

Pro Logic

Jul 18, 4:27pm

Have fear? Just give up your freedoms and agency and I will fix it. A tell as

coolblue

Jul 19, 7:35am

I think that would be a tough conclusion to draw

Remigius

Jul 18, 4:29pm

Really, they’re just now figuring that out? Duh what else would it be?

Pretorian

Jul 18, 5:35pm

Whew! None of my kids have anxiety

BYU Grounds

Jul 18, 5:45pm

Kids can benefit from this, too.

Jul 18, 5:53pm

You know the leading cause of anxiety in parents?

cougXor

Jul 18, 8:39pm

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