I'm willing to cede that you have more responsibilities as a husband and father. That much is obvious. I'm just saying there's another side to it. I'd argue that being a good student isn't so much about having enough time as it is being focused with the time you do have after a certain point. As an LDS guy, and just as a man who doesn't want to be alone if he can help it, it can be tough to flip the priority switch, and put school first. And even when you consciously make school a priority, girls are going to find a way into your mind. It must be nice to just have that part of your life figured out, not to mention have your "needs" met on a regular basis. That's really the only point I'm trying to make here.