I was blessed to not be diagnosed until after my mission, but was diagnosed during my first year of marriage, about 21 years ago. I didn’t know it then, but I recognize not, that I had my first Crohn’s flare while serving, though, and thought it was just part of serving in the Philippines. I left at 175-180lbs (in good shape) and came home at 130. Haha I blame it on a tape worm I had and was treated for, the first few months, but went into a remission, for a 1 1/2 years after returning, until my first couple surgeries. It inspired my wife to go back to school for a 2nd degree, and get her RN. A blessing in disguise.
I am so impressed that your son made it. It takes a lot of planning with medications, especially if he is on biologics, which would be very difficult if he served internationally. Please pass my regards and congratulations from one BYU Crohnie to another. Cheer a little extra for me, and tell him that the 2nd mens bathroom on the North West side always has the shorter lines. Haha Go Cougs!!