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Sep 19, 2024
10:07:08pm

BNcoug All-American

You have to be the parent. Clean out her room weekly or monthly.

She’ll get mad and throw a fit but you have to do it.

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BNcoug

Bio page: BNcoug
Joined: Jan 4, 2013
Last login: Sep 19, 2024
Total posts: 3,269 (8 FO)

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Messages

Author

Time

Ok…I need some MIL advice

Kale

Sep 19, 8:01pm

Were you thinking she would stop when she moved in with you?

BYU'01

Sep 19, 8:04pm

Good question. No car and cutting off her supply thought would help

Kale

Sep 19, 8:05pm

If she lost her last home I would expect therapy/medication would be necessary

BYU'01

Sep 19, 8:09pm

Her kids need to step up and address the problem. This isn’t an in-law issue

kansascougar

Sep 19, 8:05pm

Her kids don’t care. I invited her to live with us

Kale

Sep 19, 8:57pm

Yeah, saw that. That terrible. You’re a good man. God bless you

kansascougar

Sep 19, 9:06pm

I'm sorry, this sounds stressful. You're a good person for wanting to help.

OrsoNero

Sep 19, 8:05pm

She loses her mind if you take anything away. Like a kid

Kale

Sep 19, 8:07pm

It must be so difficult for those people.

OrsoNero

Sep 19, 8:12pm

I would still throw it away. But that’s me.

JohnnyC

Sep 19, 8:13pm

Toss it anyway

Born2Fish

Sep 19, 11:48pm

As long as it stays in her room, and it's not actual trash, but just clean

paulb

Sep 19, 8:06pm

I can’t imagine why you thought it would be a good idea to let this person live with you.

Sep 19, 8:06pm

Can’t argue your point. Just thought I could help

Kale

Sep 19, 8:14pm

Well, you get credit for trying. It’s more than I would have been willing to do.

Sep 19, 8:25pm

Life’s too short to lie to the people who make our lives harder.

The 435

Sep 19, 8:09pm

Sounds like she needs to talk to a therapist.

wjman11

Sep 19, 8:09pm

Weekly or monthly room check like college kid apartments. Tell her this is your house

Soupie

Sep 19, 8:11pm

5-6mg of psilocybin mushrooms and threaten assisted living if it continues.

Shore10

Sep 19, 8:18pm

It is a mental illness. She needs professional help

mudpupper

Sep 19, 8:24pm

It’s a form of OCD and is treatable.

Future_Tacos

Sep 19, 8:34pm

RE: It’s a form of OCD and is treatable.

Kale

Sep 19, 8:38pm

Either it goes voluntarily or you go and THEN it will also go

JimmyZ

Sep 19, 8:41pm

I would talk to the neighbors about not giving her anything

TLCougar

Sep 19, 8:42pm

I now know why Kale is always pessimistic and grumpy n

wildlandfireguy

Sep 19, 9:03pm

lol….that’s what byu football does to me

Kale

Sep 19, 9:14pm

You have to be the parent. Clean out her room weekly or monthly.

BNcoug

Sep 19, 10:07pm

My dad does this. In his case this was a side effect of depression. We got him

Millhouse

1:35am

Is it crucial conversation or ultimatum time?

BringYourUltimate

5:24am

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