Nothing that I or Dapper have done in this thread is different from what you and those agreeing with you have done, with one notable exception.
That being that one of the two "groups" is complaining about it and asking for a way to make CB a safe space for themselves. The other put on their big boy pants and learned to deal with it when people disagree with them.
I'll leave it as an exercise for the reader to discern which is which.