It's absurd behavior by the grandparents. To be clear, not getting gifts for

Dec 24, 2024
9:11:03am

rcbyufan All-American

Kids and grandchildren is fine. Just tell everyone you aren't doing presents. Easy. Done.

Telling everyone you gave to the giving machine instead is super lame and embarrassing. Classic boomer behavior.

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rcbyufan

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My parents decided no presents this year for kids or grandkids. They decided to

Magneto

Dec 24, 8:54am

Idk sounds cool to me

Chocolate_Pretzel

Dec 24, 8:56am

How old are the kids? They may not even notice or care.

Belboz

Dec 24, 8:57am

Cut them off and never speak to them again.

TCuz

Dec 24, 8:57am

Yeah! Leave the church and tell them this is why, too. That'll get em

WaffleCheese

Dec 24, 9:37am

Tell them they wanted to give to kids in need and help your kids understand why

benny1982

Dec 24, 8:57am

Yeah, it's sort of lame but it would also be lame to be resentful about it

fattycoug

Dec 24, 9:07am

You need to chill.

immacougar

Dec 24, 8:58am

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KYU

Dec 24, 10:02am

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Longseason

Dec 24, 8:58am

Why would you say anything? They're not going to announce what they did?

rcbyufan

Dec 24, 8:59am

They did announce it to our family. They said no more presents for grandkids

Magneto

Dec 24, 9:10am

Oh. Well I retract my outrage. That's perfectly fine behavior.

rcbyufan

Dec 24, 9:12am

Your kids will have no problem understanding if they are physically taking them somewhere to give the donation. That's

mokelembembe

Dec 24, 9:14am

Yup. Sounds cool to me. Maybe tell the kid his budget and let him pick the gift/gifts he’s giving. This would be a cool

mvtoro

Dec 24, 9:21am

Then join them and help your kids see the better side of Christmas!!

AzCugrFan

Dec 24, 9:45am

^^^The Christmas spirit gone wrong^^^

brazilcoug

Dec 24, 9:00am

Sounds like a cool idea to me.

cheezedawg

Dec 24, 9:00am

Your kids didn’t want chickens?

SausageKing

Dec 24, 9:00am

You just tell them the truth, that one set of grandparents decided to give

4mack

Dec 24, 9:01am

LOL. The grandparents should be explaining. Why are they not talking to their

rcbyufan

Dec 24, 9:02am

There's not anything in the OP specifically stating that they aren't going to be

fattycoug

Dec 24, 9:09am

He clarified. Sounds like they behaved fine.

rcbyufan

Dec 24, 9:12am

If you live close to your parents, it would have been fun for them to take the

PCCoug

Dec 24, 9:01am

silly take. why are they obligated to gift your kids?

AzCugrFan

Dec 24, 9:01am

Because both of their parents did gifts to me and my siblings. Now they don’t

Magneto

Dec 24, 9:12am

So people don’t have the right to evolve their thinking and change? They are

SnickSnack

Dec 24, 9:32am

And they got off Scott free after cleaning up from their own parents!? How dare they not pay their fair share into the

mvtoro

Dec 24, 9:34am

As reddit would say YATAH

fattycoug

Dec 24, 1:50pm

Grandparents shouldn’t really be the ones spoiling the kids on Christmas anyway IMO.

Mike Honcho

Dec 24, 9:02am

Grandparent gifts aren't really a thing in my family.

cruoti

Dec 24, 9:03am

I'm confused, why would you resent your parents for this. Is this a reverse?

Meadowcoug

Dec 24, 9:04am

It's absurd behavior by the grandparents. To be clear, not getting gifts for

rcbyufan

Dec 24, 9:11am

Edit: His post above clarifies the behavior. They acted fine.

rcbyufan

Dec 24, 9:13am

They sent out a big group message telling everyone their reasoning and if we’d

Magneto

Dec 24, 9:16am

Sounds like a great idea. You should take your kids and join them.

cougarim

Dec 24, 9:34am

RE: It's absurd behavior by the grandparents. To be clear, not getting gifts

UNLVcougar

Dec 24, 1:47pm

Wow....classic millennial/ gen z response here.

carcoug

Dec 24, 6:23pm

This can’t be real right? Someone getting mad at their parents for being

Pepe

Dec 24, 9:35am

What are you going to tell them? That’s absurd. It’s not about getting gifts for Christmas. You’re raising spoiled brats

RdF3

Dec 24, 9:06am

Tell them the truth, your kids have plenty and their grandparents wanted to help

Cosmodiar

Dec 24, 9:07am

I thought the whole point of Christmas is giving and worshiping Jesus.

JohnnyC

Dec 24, 9:09am

But what about getting cheap Chinese crap?

cheezedawg

Dec 24, 9:12am

Only if you purchase it at Temu.

JohnnyC

Dec 24, 9:51am

So you don't give your kids gifts right?

ochobeeguy

Dec 24, 10:15am

Yes. I don’t give gifts to my kids.

JohnnyC

Dec 24, 12:09pm

I do not understand your parents choice nor your reaction.

shimmy

Dec 24, 9:14am

Tell them you were going to go visit them but instead you are going to go visit the giving machines now. JK. Don’t

TADOW

Dec 24, 9:15am

One of our gifts to our kids is a pic of the options and we go the day after

Dataguy

Dec 24, 9:15am

RE: My parents decided no presents this year for kids or grandkids. They decided

goidcougs

Dec 24, 9:18am

Resenting your parents for this seems a bit harsh.

John Doe

Dec 24, 9:18am

My parents have a ton of grandkids, much more than 14, so we taught our kids

Penske Material

Dec 24, 9:19am

I don't think I ever got gifts from mine. As the youngest grandchild going to

ImRonBurgundy?

Dec 24, 9:53am

Potd to complete the collection, and for the sheer absurdity of the post.

StantonMac

Dec 24, 9:21am

Hopefully you can provide the appropriate context and example for them to follow

couldge

Dec 24, 9:26am

I hope you took your kids to make the donation!

Still Blue

Dec 24, 9:26am

Not sure if this is really about Christmas giving

korihor

Dec 24, 9:26am

mvtoro

Dec 24, 9:36am

My in-laws did the same thing and my kids are totally fine.

Yukon

Dec 24, 9:28am

our kids go to the giving machines and pick the gift for/from the grandparents.

niqmadu

Dec 24, 9:35am

This. This is why I can’t quit CB.

Tortillero

Dec 24, 9:36am

I can understand your concern if your kids

Herewego

Dec 24, 9:39am

It only works if the Grandkids get to allot the money at the Giving Machine

wildwilderness

Dec 24, 9:39am

A few years ago our extended family took all the kids to a foreign country to spend a week at an orphanage. We

Rules For Thee

Dec 24, 9:40am

I love reading about these types of things. Makes me want to do better.

qwerew

Dec 24, 11:19am

Your parents are awesome.

Benfica1

Dec 24, 9:41am

Your parents are giving your kids a far better gift than presents. This is great

runnincoug

Dec 24, 9:45am

You just tell them exactly what they are doing. You should raise your kids to

A Drew Aitch

Dec 24, 9:46am

Hopefully your kids have a better understanding of Christmas than you do

SLC-Durham

Dec 24, 9:48am

I teach my kids that Christmas is more than presents

YIsForBrigham

Dec 24, 9:52am

If you look at it, this way, you’re inheritance is not hemorrhaging quite as much. Nothing to resent there.😉

KYU

Dec 24, 10:02am

I had one set that gave every grandkid a gift and one that didn’t. Shockingly

Ray Shoesmith

Dec 24, 10:09am

I thought this was a joke at first. Nope. Here's what my parents have done –

Benfica1

Dec 24, 10:24am

is this a "reverse" or what ever they call it? This can't be serious.

qwerew

Dec 24, 11:17am

My parents did something similar but they gave us money and asked us to donate to a charity of our choosing

LaserCoug

Dec 24, 11:29am

Is this a reverse?

Lefty24

Dec 24, 12:06pm

You're seriously whining about that? Or is this a reverse I dont understand?

BYUfan92

Dec 24, 1:27pm

I’d calmly sit them down and explain that your in-laws don’t care for the poor

DiamondMo

Dec 24, 1:28pm

The amount of angst in this thread over giving to the needy in lieu of Christmas

UNLVcougar

Dec 24, 1:53pm

I know I’m in the minority here but I think it’s weird.

abyunobody

Dec 24, 3:34pm

Nice try. We know this is a throwaway account, OP.

WaffleCheese

Dec 24, 3:57pm

If they had only given each grandkid a goat, it could have counted for both.

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