don't stay in place for the kids. this is your life and career, they can make their own decision when they're grown.

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Nov 6, 2024
8:55:07pm

byujag All-American

moving is good for them and you.

I'd encourage going east but you need to find a position with a nicer pay raise.

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Time

What would you do?

IronPotato

Nov 6, 8:30pm

You don't want to move to Utah and your kids are settled. Seems like an answer to me. Something in AZ will turn up

BYUnerd

Nov 6, 8:32pm

Stay in AZ

webster242

Nov 6, 8:34pm

I have to move back to Utah for work soon. I fly back often already.

rad dawg

Nov 6, 8:38pm

C - find a side hustle that energizes you. Sock away the extra $. There will

DiamondDog

Nov 6, 8:43pm

Those are hard questions

cougarmeister

Nov 6, 8:46pm

Exact Opposite

MoveTheChains

Nov 6, 9:00pm

Sorry to hear that.

cougarmeister

Nov 6, 9:31pm

What is your profession? Are you in Phx?

bad84cougar

Nov 6, 8:47pm

don't stay in place for the kids. this is your life and career, they can make their own decision when they're grown.

byujag

Nov 6, 8:55pm

I moved as a kid (FL to TX at 11yo, TX to PA at 15 yo). I think it was fine.

RoboKayne

Nov 6, 9:37pm

I wouldn't -

lightmann

Nov 6, 9:21pm

There is no right or wrong answer. Your happiness will always come from within.

wildwilderness

Nov 6, 9:22pm

Rather than wait around, decide to get a better job and move forward full steam

RoboKayne

Nov 6, 9:49pm

When in doubt keep your low mortgage rate imo..

cougfanz

Nov 6, 9:49pm

Thanks for all of your thoughts. I really appreciate the insight. 🙏🤎

IronPotato

Nov 6, 9:52pm

Depends on age of kids

Johnny Vatos

Nov 6, 11:22pm

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