I asked when did YOU think it's "enough" to be upset? What's the line for YOU?

Mostly I wouldn't have said anything, but your claim that this isn't "systemic" was kind of a ridiculous thing to say. Because it happens over, and over, and over. So it's gaslighting to tell BYU fans "this never happens" when it does! If you don't feel like it's your place to get upset about it and say anything about it, and you want to just shrug your shoulders and say, "nothing I can do" then whatever---but don't pretend it doesn't happen and blame BYU fans for saying it happens. That's just turning a blind eye.