Sign up, and you'll be able to vote in polls. Sign up
Oct 18, 2021
12:19:27am
Tricky Truly Addicted User
Sure, he can lie. But going in guns blazing (metaphorically) isn't how I want
to deal with my neighbors, at least initially. I think you can still have a very frank conversation that starts with asking for an explanation of what purpose he had in being back there without starting by telling him you called the police and are notifying the neighborhood watch and contacting everyone on NextDoor. Are you 100% positive there is no set of circumstances under which you'd be less concerned than other circumstances?

I would ask him the question, see how you feel about his response, with the plan that almost anything he says is going to be met with your response, which would be along the lines of "Be that as it may, I'm not comfortable with you doing what you did. I'm sure you saw some of my cameras but probably didn't see all of them. I don't want this to become a problem, and if this happens again I won't hesitate to contact the police."

That way, not only does he know that you have cameras, but he knows that you saw him and that you recognize him.
This message has been modified
Originally posted on Oct 18, 2021 at 12:19:27am
Message modified by Tricky on Oct 18, 2021 at 12:21:49am
Tricky
Bio page
Tricky
Joined
Jun 25, 2009
Last login
Dec 22, 2024
Total posts
23,262 (143 FO)
Messages
Author
Time
10/17/21 10:46pm
10/17/21 10:50pm
10/17/21 10:53pm
10/18/21 7:26am
10/18/21 10:56am
10/17/21 10:48pm
10/17/21 11:29pm
10/17/21 11:40pm
10/18/21 12:04am
10/18/21 3:52am
10/18/21 1:55pm
10/17/21 10:59pm
10/17/21 11:26pm
10/18/21 6:32am
10/18/21 7:07am
10/18/21 12:41pm
10/18/21 1:50pm

Posting on CougarBoard

In order to post, you will need to either sign up or log in.