to the Yew. It's seriously like buying affection from one of your kids that hates your guts. You want to have a good relationship with the kid. You want them to love you like you love them. So, what do you do? You answer their calls, knowing they just want money. Then, once you cave in and do the nice thing, they and their friends go back to what they have always done...they crap on you until the next time they need you.
Seriously, when was the last time you heard anything more than token gratitude from anyone at the Yew for all the financial assistance the Church has provided to it. As someone who's attended both schools and has seen the rivalry for 50+ years from both sides, in regards to the "team up north", I simply say: