Other than your last sentence, I basically agree with what you are saying in that we should be more positive given how amazing our team is playing.
Complaining about refs gets old and I'm definitely not at all happy to see us speculating about players that might enter the portal and assessing whether they might have a good reason for it before it's even happened. Why even bring that up right now?
Also, I will note that the griping over officials in the BYU-Wisconsin game is widespread among college basketball fans in general and not just among BYU fans or even fans of B12 teams (at least based on X comments from persons who identify themselves as fans of various teams outside the B12).