I can't judge and I'm not sure why anyone who's a member would, but if you look at the older celebrities who are in shape and still look decent, it makes a little sense why younger woman would be attracted. This is just going so far it's hard to believe. My aunt used to cringe when guys in their later 30s dated women in their early 20s. He'd not 40,50,60.. He's 70s.. She wants a ring and to just wait it out.