at the very moment that Kalani was giving his inspirational, Uchtdorfesque speech about how we shouldn't hate people on the other team, Tanuvasa was echoing the theme in the other locker room.
And if you're a kid with enough wisdom and perspective to get that and articulate it on your own, you're also aware enough to realize that the petty, garbage, grievance games of the Utes head coach are beneath you and your more elevated view of the world.
Many funny jokes and jabs have been shared about Kalani's "love & learn" mindset but I believe it is ultimately the right one (once balanced with Jay Hill style butt kickers) and will win kids like Tanuvasa over on an increasing basis.