to we need 1 more. I never said anything to change her mind. It needed to be her decision. She knew I thought 4 was a good number of kids from before we were married, but I knew how hard it was to have twins. Ours were 8 lbs. 9 oz. and 7 lbs. 9 oz (that's over 16 pounds combined - more than the octo-babies, triplets, quadruplets... weigh combined. Love our youngest. Love our twins. Love our oldest. Life is a rollercoaster. Twins make that rollercoaster ride a bit more crazy.