question or explain what it is you need then why do you assume the one you’re reaching out to will have the energy to ask you what it is that you need from them?

If you IM someone without getting to the point or asking your question — please stop.

You guys are the left lane campers driving at or below the speed limit. You’re the old guy at the gym lockerroom who is far too casual and in no hurry to get your clothes back on.