Wealth. Family, Church, BYU, pro sports, golf, pickup basketball in amazing arenas, etc.
He's clearly ambitious and is still helping build business, especially in Utah, but it's not all encompassing, like it is for most self-made billionaires.
Then the other billionaires seem to get caught up in crazy elaborate displays of power and extravagance. (then you have Jeff Bezos who seems to have transitioned from the former to the latter)
Ryan, on the other hand, is really just like us. Only successful.