You straightway clear out your office & sneak out the back in those situations. And you take half the staff & some of the best players with you.
It puts BYU in a terrible, terrible bind in the moment — but of course you can't say No to the Kentucky job.
At the same time, it's pretty low to shower a bunch of love at BYU & its fans when you're in the process of doing them dirty like that.
It wouldn't surprise me if Tom asked him to just leave quickly & quietly.