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Sep 25, 2024
10:34:00pm

care86 Contributor

I know you beleive that, but I can tell you as a non member, and the way my

Neighbors love me and my kids, until we decline a church invite, tells a different story. This wasnt meant to be a negative message. I beleive most on here are welcoming and acccepting. Just saying I think it takes guts for a 20 year old to do what he has done. That's all.

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Not sure my point, but takes a lot of guts to go to a Mormon school as a Jewish

care86

Sep 25, 10:25pm

If anything, wouldn’t it just make him more popular?

Shawarma

Sep 25, 10:27pm

It’s not that shocking he came here. BYU was his best offer. When you have one

TheMediator

Sep 25, 10:27pm

I disagree. Despite BYU’s subjective flaws it has to be the most welcoming school, fanbase and program in the country.

Zach Morris

Sep 25, 10:27pm

While I see your point, as a non member, I can tell you, it's not as welcoming

care86

Sep 25, 10:31pm

He’s also on a team with people who aren’t members.

Shawarma

Sep 25, 10:34pm

That's a very good point I hadn't considered.

care86

Sep 25, 10:35pm

Across the entirety of the human populous there are those who are very warm and welcoming, those that are neutral, those

Zach Morris

Sep 25, 10:59pm

It can be a little awkward.

Weagle Coug

4:15am

Did you attend BYU as a non-member?

NorCal_Coug

4:30am

At least he's at a school without Anti-Jew protestors. BYU is likely the safest

CharlottesvilleCoug

5:25am

My thought too when reading OP. Many schools literally rioting/ protesting Jews

NYC and Japan

7:15am

^THIS^ BYU prob many times more welcoming than a plethora of other schools

8:26am

I don't know, man. My ward is great but some people are just cold/distant 🤣

OldFogey

6:14am

Especially if skin color is important to you. My old ward in Houston had...

Les IsMore

7:50am

I don't know. I attended BYU in the 90's with some siblings.

Jacksonian76

10:44am

BYU students, like LDS in general, see non-members as conversion targets

beantownblue

7:48am

Kalani is maybe the most welcoming HC in CFB. I’m sure he figured he’d be okay

puntersarepeople

7:50am

We certainly welcome you!

Love Cougs

9:17am

I agree that being a minority at BYU

Archaea

10:19am

I don’t think anyone would go after his religion if he started sucking.

Samsonite

Sep 25, 10:28pm

Oh I agree with that... but he didn't know that.

care86

Sep 25, 10:35pm

So says you. Perhaps he did some easy research.

Les IsMore

7:51am

Why? If anything LDS very much like Jewish people and find much in common.

GfB

Sep 25, 10:29pm

I find it kind of sad that Mormons like Jews, because

Cougardinal

7:23am

Are these practicing Jews or Jewish by heritage only?

SnickSnack

8:22am

I've never met a Jew that disliked Mormons...the total opposite actually

MaximusMeridius

10:01am

Surprised to hear that.

Cougardinal

11:06am

I deal with a lot of Jewish people in my line of work

Blue Heart

11:35am

Both have a lot of people working at NASA.

Genghis Spreads

8:19am

Nah - we are much nicer than many alternatives

Spocougar

Sep 25, 10:29pm

Exactly. BYU is probably the most tolerant place for a Jew to play.

Samsonite

Sep 25, 10:31pm

I know you beleive that, but I can tell you as a non member, and the way my

care86

Sep 25, 10:34pm

FWIW, the neighbors treat the members the same.

DirtyWater

Sep 25, 10:48pm

^^^100% TRUE in my experience!^^^

JackCoog

9:27am

Sounds like you have a neighbor problem, not a Church problem. Some folks are

Fdnman

6:47am

My roommate was a practicing Presbyterian, but he managed to survive BYU.

Les IsMore

8:00am

Like many humans, many church members struggle to accept negative feedback

Tricky

9:01am

That wasn't at all what I said...I was actually agreeing with him that most

Fdnman

9:11am

I understand. I'm reacting more to other responses on here. And I do think

Tricky

9:17am

Unfortunately, your experience is not unique. I’ve heard similar experiences

NYC and Japan

7:20am

Don't ever tell the LDS you're unwelcoming or unaccepting in any way. They'll

Genghis Spreads

8:08am

My only issue with this type of conversation is the implication

LevZloi

8:48am

Ditto

Heydude32

8:40am

Easy for you to say. Put yourself in his shoes. He has my respect, that's all I

care86

Sep 25, 10:32pm

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acougfan

Sep 25, 10:43pm

Took lots of guts & wit to remain Jewish in Europe during Middle Ages, which is why only most brilliant remained Jewish

roseyscenario

Sep 25, 10:56pm

Most major public schools would be much harder for a Jewish

cougarfann888

Sep 25, 10:57pm

BYU isn’t doing free Palestine riots. He’s likely safer here than anywhere.

Mjolnir

6:39am

...and Retzlaff may end up good.

Plantagenet

Sep 25, 10:59pm

If I was an LDS athlete, I'd prefer going to a Jewish school (if there was one) or a Catholic school like Notre Dame.

Brisco

Sep 25, 11:04pm

As a a small town kid I understand his feelings that way. I struggled at first.

Les IsMore

8:08am

From my own point of view, which I know is biased and maybe not the standard….

Peterbilt

Sep 25, 11:23pm

We should be kind to all but I think your second paragraph explains your first

BYU '80

7:04am

I'm supposing BYU is much more welcoming to Jews than Colombia, Berkley, and

mexYcan

12:07am

FYI. It's Columbia University, Colombia is the country.

TheHop

5:24am

Sorry I bugged the crap out of you. How do you feel about what I was saying?

mexYcan

11:04am

Columbia University came first

1:43pm

And I am sure they can

TheHop

1:47pm

Lots of drama for a misplaced o/u. I'm learning CB is funny that way. Ignore

mexYcan

3:27pm

RE: I'm supposing BYU is much more welcoming to Jews than Colombia, Berkley, and

longtimeYfan

8:59am

But you care if they are not attending a church?

TheHop

10:16am

I'm guessing you are stretching that implication too far. Give him the benefit

mexYcan

11:11am

Yup. I'll bet at least 95% of BYU (hopefully more) feel that same way.

mexYcan

11:06am

I like Jake but come on man, nobody is going to turn down their only offer to play power football

KYU

1:11am

RE: "..takes a lot of guts to go to a Mormon school as a Jewish." lol. Really? Tell me you haven't been paying..

greatbam

2:39am

I was gonna say at least his classmates don’t stop him from attending school lol

NonmormonYfan89

8:19am

Unless I am reading this wrong it actually show us only 15% favorable to Jews

Sport sci

8:26am

Sounds like you are reading it wrong.

Ferb

8:31am

Gotcha- I was reading it incorrect

Sport sci

9:01am

Jews were actually the most favorably viewed group, across the board, though

basman

8:52am

Yes, you are looking at it wrong.

greatbam

8:59am

My wife's roommate at BYU was a nonmember and had a fantastic experience. A lot

GMGlenn

6:17am

I understand your point. Yes, I agree that it had to have come into his mind

BlueTooth

6:24am

Lds people have been incredibly supportive of Israel. I think that reflects well

BYU '80

7:00am

My Israeli friend always says "Everybody in Israel knows that the Mormons are

AZ Coug

11:25am

I am very confused by your take….you have neighbors that don’t like you that are

ordinary tri guy

7:10am

I would say it the exact opposite. The Jews are in our Articles of Faith!

BYUHgrad

7:20am

I’ve really appreciated Jordan Petsersons perspective when it comes to slicing

Lefty24

7:35am

Not more gutsy than Fous & Khalifa attending as Muslims.

Forzaitalia

7:54am

He is paid to be there. And it is not that big of a deal at all

chismoso

8:09am

Better than going to the Unuversity of Hamas!

8:23am

You go where you think you will play regardless of school religious or

notsofast

8:41am

This is true but you can’t entirely ignore the social aspects.

Archaea

10:20am

Not really.

RedSox

9:39am

Historically Jews have been admired by our faith.

VenomFarmer

10:45am

No kidding, second witness of Christ in there cannon. Has to raise some doubt.

TJD

11:55am

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